How Weddings Work: Processional

Many couples think their Vows are the entirety of a ceremony, and the magical moment when they become married. Actually, Vows are just a small segment of a larger ceremony, albeit the most romantic part. The words an officiant needs to hear in order to marry you are “I Do” or “I Will” to the …

How Weddings Work: Sacred Space Blessing

According to some theologians, places can be either “sacred” or “profane.” While the word “profane” might make you think of horrible acts or thoughts, it simply means “a place not set apart for special purposes.” Your wedding ceremony is a special moment, and its location will forever be etched in your mind. Asking for your …

How Weddings Work: Giving Away The Bride

A bride being escorted down the aisle by a loved one is a quintessential part of the "storybook wedding" many people dream about. But, in this modern age, many brides are conflicted about being “given away” at their wedding. Women are no longer seen as property, to be given by a father to a husband. …

How Weddings Work: The Welcome

Think of the Procession, a Blessing of Space, and Giving Away of the Bride as a prelude or introduction. The Welcome marks the true start of your wedding ceremony and sets the tone for the rest of the proceedings. “Dearly Beloved, we are gathered here today…” is probably the best-known Welcome, despite the archaic language. …

How Weddings Work: Opening Words/Prayer/Readings

Your guests are seated and welcomed. Now you and your beloved are holding hands at the top of the aisle. The next part of a wedding ceremony is an opening prayer or words of wisdom. This can be followed by readings. Let’s break this down: Having officiated numerous weddings, I can “read” an audience. Are …